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February 7, 2019 Psychiatry

Strong. Resilient. Brave

Three words many people would use to describe those who serve. They put themselves before others and risk their lives in honor of freedom. Service men and women are selfless and admirable but they are not immune to emotional and physical difficulties.

Often times, these difficulties can arise during the transition to civilian life. There are many roadblocks- some mental and some physical- that can stand in the way of a veteran’s health and happiness. Here are some tips that can help create a smooth transition for a veteran you love.

Don’t Make Assumptions

This is important! Every Veteran will transition differently so be sure not to overwhelm. However, if notice signs of depression, anxiety, or PTSD, it’s important to get them help. Never assume that someone is OK and transitioning well just because they smile. Veterans have been through a lot and may go through a period of separation anxiety as they work to adjust to their new ‘normal’.

Encourage A Healthy Routine

During the period of transition, many veterans will benefit from a routine. This can help bridge the gap between the strict military regime and new life as a civilian. A healthy routine is also a great opportunity for some self-care though working out and eating right.

Provide Support

This might sound obvious but it’s essential. You can provide support in many ways. Make a coffee date, send a BBQ invite, or simply pick up the phone and talk.. Give veterans space but focus on being there. Pick up the phone and start the conversation.

Most importantly, you can help a veteran by connecting them with a mental health professional. Dr. Madaram to help them create a plan for the transition back to civilian life. As a member of the military himself, he has special interest in military personnel and veterans who suffer with depression, anxiety, PTSD and other disorders that interfere with their lives.


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January 23, 2019 Psychiatry

Is trauma really about personal resilience?

How much vs. how little exposure?

Are some people just stronger than others in the wake of trauma?

Understanding Small Ts and Large Ts

The truth is, someone doesn’t have to experience an overly distressing event in order for it to affect them deeply. In fact, the build up of smaller, everyday experiences can really take a toll. Trauma, whether big or small, can linger and affect your everyday life.

The “Large Ts” are usually the experiences most people think about when it comes to trauma. Military combat, sexual abuse, and natural disasters are commonly fall under the category of “Large Ts”.  These types of trauma are the ones often associated with PTSD and leave people feeling powerless.

On the other hand, “Small Ts” can also interfere with your mental wellness. They too can disrupt emotional functioning and cause people to feel depressed and hopeless. Small traumas include situations such as family conflicts to financial stress, or divorce/ infidelity. Small traumas can accumulate and take an even bigger toll over time.

Who Gets PTSD & Who Doesn’t?

PTSD is a complex diagnosis. Trauma affects people differently. Factors like your past, perception of the event, and personal tolerance all matter. Also, not all combat service members are diagnosed with PTSD. The difference between developing trauma-related symptoms (or not) also has to do with how individuals process the trauma. Avoidance can lead to PTSD which is why it’s so important to heal.

Whether large or small, the way you perceive trauma is not a sign of weakness. Your journey to healing starts with self-love and acceptance. Dr. Madaram has a special interest in military personnel and veterans who suffer with depression, anxiety, PTSD and other disorders that interfere with their lives. He’s here to help you heal from all types of trauma in order to live your best life. Call today 919-802-1417


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January 10, 2019 Psychiatry

Experiencing any sort of trauma can be a life-changing event. If you’ve lost something crucial to your well-being, you can’t often tell what the outcome will be. Sometimes losses can be caused by a disorder that drives you to do things you wouldn’t normally do.

And when that happens, you can feel pretty helpless and powerless.

Trauma recovery can be a challenge, but with the right support, there are ways to recover, rebuild, and move forward with your life.

Start By Labeling Your Feelings

When you feel powerless, you feel afraid to express your needs because you fear that even more will be taken from you. When you start the path to recovery, small steps can have a BIG impact. Put one foot in front of the other each day. Start by talking about how you feel and why. When you identify and engage in your emotions, you can slowly start to take positive action.

Develop The Right Mindset

As you try to move away from trauma, having the right mindset is essential to recovery. Find ways to help you stay present. Try to live in the moment. Develop an attitude of gratitude to help you find the good in each day. This can help slowly build up your self-esteem and confidence.

Healing after trauma starts with believing in yourself and the potential you have. Let Dr. Madarm take of of the “hows” of recovery at Freedom Psychiatry.

Dr. Madaram offers adult and pediatric trauma treatment to help you find ways to recover. Through talking therapy modalities like CBT and EMDR, and medicine if needed, he can help you find your footing and overcome PTSD. Everyone has the strength to overcome challenges. Sometimes, you just need a little help to find it.

Let Dr. Madaram get you on the path to healing through finding yourself. Call Today (919) 802-1417


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