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The holidays can be a time of grief and sadness for those suffering from loss. Grief can be encompassing. It can come in overwhelming waves that make it difficult to cope. With the sights and sounds of holiday cheer all around, how can someone suffering from grief find relief?

Understanding Grief

Grief is a natural, emotional reaction to loss or change. It can cause you to feel overwhelmed, frustrated, depressed or angry. Grief can leave you stunned and left wondering if you’ll ever recognize your life again. The truth is, healing is a journey that doesn’t happen overnight.

To start, be kind to yourself.

Let yourself feel.

Label your emotions and don’t believe you have to “feel” a certain way. Accepting and acknowledging the pain is better than constant avoidance Give yourself permission to grieve.

Find Support on Your Healing Journey

Another essential element to healing is finding the right support system. Don’t be afraid to reach out when you feel lonely. Don’t put your emotional needs on the back burner. Sometimes, you might have to reach out because friends and family members might feel uncomfortable talking about your grief. They might think that you don’t want to talk about it. Even on the hardest days, remember that grief is a part of healing.

Be sure to set boundaries.

Caving into pressure or pretending to be “OK” can make your pain and grief even worse. Avoidance can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms such as drug or alcohol use. One of the best ways to deal with grief is to seek the help of a mental health professional.

Dr. Madaram at Freedom Psychiatry believes that everyone has the strength to overcome challenges. Sometimes he needs to help you find it. In fact, sometimes he believes his role is showing you the way to find it yourself.

This holiday season, remember that the best gift you can give yourself is to be kind and true to yourself. Commit to living life as the best version of YOU possible. Be kind to yourself as you adjust to loss and deal with grief. We’re here for you! Give us as call today 919-802-1417

The holidays are known as the most wonderful time of the year!

A time meant for relaxing and spending time with the people you love. However, in reality, the holidays are filled with stress of all varieties. Many of us are out of our daily routines and overloaded with sugar and other holiday treats. Add to that the stress of gift giving, decorating, entertaining and it’s no wonder people develop holiday burnout.

Here are some ways you can stay healthy, happy and enjoy the holidays more this year…

Say “NO”

Don’t be afraid to say “no” so you don’t overcommit. There’s a lot of stress associated with holidays from attending events to buying everyone a gift. Overcommitment in these areas of your life can lead to burnout. Instead of attending the entire party, try staying for an hour. If finances are a strain, give gifts of love and gratitude that don’t cost a penny.

Maintain Routines

Long nights, poor diets, and lack of exercise can really impact your mental health and mood. Focus on staying grounded in your healthy routines. Overeating, drinking, and excess sugar this time of year can all affect your mood. Be mindful and enjoy the holidays responsibly.

Prioritize

Society puts a lot of pressure on us this time of year! There are so many things we are supposed to do this holiday season that might not be part of what you actually want to do. Forget about decorating, baking, and caroling if they don’t make you happy. Prioritize your health and happiness. Make a “to do” list and create a plan that allows you to tackle a little each day.

Most importantly, slow down and take it all in. Don’t give into the pressures of stress and perfection we see this time of year. If you need help finding mental or emotional freedom for you or a loved one, Dr. Madaram can help create a wellness plan for you.

Social Anxiety is hard to deal with anytime of year, but the holidays can add extra stress to the disorder.

Holiday parties increase the pressure to socialize….what will people think?

Overcrowded rooms, theaters, and malls can trigger panic…. what if something bad happens?

The list goes on and on. And, to those who suffer, social anxiety can build to more than just being shy or nervous. Social Anxiety Disorder affects more than 15 million adults in the US alone. Luckily, there are some ways you can get out this holiday season without letting your anxiety set in.

Find Support

Consider bringing a friend or loved one along for support. Large gatherings are a staple of the season. Ask a trusted person to join you who understands your difficulty in socializing. Their emotional support can help ease your anxiety by providing a buffer if things get difficult.

Pinpoint Your Anxiety

Think about what’s actually making you anxious. Is it a certain person? A place? A scenario? If you can pinpoint the source of your anxiety, you can create small, attainable goals. Don’t take on too much at once. Instead of committing to the entire party, make it a goal to stay for an hour.

Build Your Confidence

Often times, people with social anxiety worry a lot about what other people think. Are they judging me? …..What if I embarrass myself in front of everyone? Try erasing negative thoughts by building your self-confidence. Do something for YOU as an act of self-care. Remember to love yourself, first.

As with any disorder, there are so many levels of severity. Sometimes, social anxiety can lead to withdraw and other life-changing symptoms.

If you or a loved one struggles from social or any form of anxiety, Dr. Madaram is here to help you create a path to wellness. Don’t let another holiday season go by! Call Today

Freedom Psychiatry Blog

How To Deal With Grief During The Holidays

Understanding Grief

Find Support on Your Healing Journey

Be sure to set boundaries.

How To Avoid Holiday Stress

Say “NO”

Maintain Routines

Prioritize

A Helpful Guide For Holiday Stress and Social Anxiety

Find Support

Pinpoint Your Anxiety

Build Your Confidence

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